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303 Solutions for Dropping Stress & Finding
Balance

Alan Black, CSP
Linda Edgecombe
Joe Spurrier
Diana Grippo
Martha Lanier
Joe Gandolfo
Donna Satchel
John Storm
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Doug
Smart, CSP
Pat Veal
Edie
Raether, CSP
Patti
Wood, CSP
Greg
Macioleck
Vicki
Anderson
Mike
Monahan
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30. Don’t
stew . . . do. Be a resourceful problem-solver. Being pro-active
reduces stress andanxiety. Being emotionally paralyzed and passive only
creates confusion, anxiety, and helplessness. Remember, not to decide is
to decide. - Edie Raether
31. Kites fly
because of stress. Kids have fun on teeter totters because of
resistance. Home runs are hit because of focused stress. Use your stress
for good. Focus it on positive results. - Robert Alan Black
32. When
you’ve had it at work, just blow it off. Keep a bottle of bubbles at
your desk. When you feel you are entering the danger zone of blowing
up at a peer or your boss, just kick back, put your feet on your desk
and blow a couple of bubbles instead. - Jo Spurrier
33. You need
four legs on your life table to keep it balanced. If you put all the
weight on work, any problems at work become over important.
Psychologists say our emotional response to work problems and lay-offs
have become eerily similar to the way we used to react to divorce or the
death of a loved one. - Patti Wood
34. Manage
extreme or troublesome stress through the AAABC’s:
• Avoid stress
where you can
• Accept some
stress and things you can’t control
• Alter the
stressor so it has less effect on your attitude about the stress
• Bring in
resources - get help
• Change your
life
- Mike Monahan
35. If it
ain’t broke, don’t fix it is a myth. There isn’t anything that can’t
be done better, cheaper, or faster.
- Greg Maciolek
36.
Sometimes great people wind up in jobs that are
not great for them. If it happens to you, change jobs.
- Doug Smart
37.
Staying in a job you hate in order to stay
covered by insurance, maintain tenure, or gain social position is paying
too big a price to gain too little value.
- Doug Smart
38.
Before you ever willingly sink in the water and
throw up the white flag, realize that you are stronger than you think.
- Pat Veal
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56.
Positive thinking triggers your positive
emotions: joy, fun, love, optimism, determination and enjoyment.
This then leads to a calm mental state,
increased concentration, greater confidence and relaxed muscles. And
this can lead to generating higher levels of performance.
- Joe Gandolfo
57. Develop a
positive attitude through “can-do” self-talk.
- Vicki Anderson
58. Side
step. Learn to let a variety of problems come your way without
taking them on directly. Practice stepping to the side and letting them
pass by. This allows you to pick and choose what you
are going to react to. For example, a co-worker who challenges your work
effort might best be approached by looking at the team result rather
than responding to the personal issue.
- Mike Monahan
59.
Practice extreme self-care.
“Secure your oxygen mask before assisting
others,” is what the safety instructions say aboard planes. In
emergencies we are guided to make sure you take care of yourself first
in order to be of service to others. Apply this powerful advice to your
everyday living and watch your inner strength and your availability to
others increase.
- Jo Spurrier
60.
It has been said, when everybody is
responsible, nobody is responsible.
Be sure that accountability and responsibility
are accepted by someone. Otherwise the goal or objective likely won’t be
accomplished.
- Greg Maciolek
61. Rehearse
potentially stressful situations so you are prepared for them. -
Vicki Anderson
62.
Expressing your creativity does not have to result in a monumental
sculpture. It can be a recipe, a beautifully decorated home, a
lovely wardrobe, an idea for helping a charitable group. - Diana Grippo
63. Play it
safe? No one. No one. No one has
become truly successful coloring only inside the lines.
Accept that coloring outside the lines will
lead to ideas and solutions you have never considered. - Robert Alan
Black
64. A good
laugh can go a long way in reducing stress. Research has found that
laughter causes chemical and emotional reactions that relieve stress. So
when you feel stressed out make plans to go see a funny movie, read a
comical book, watch a humorous TV show or go to a comedy show with
friends. - Donna Satchell
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