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303
Solutions for Developing the Leader in You

Cheryl Stock
Connie Dieken
David G. Lewis
DJ Harrington, CSP
Donna Satchell
Doug Smart, CSP
Sid Ridgley, CSP
Robert Stack
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Greg Maciolek
Kafi Matimiloju
Keith L. Brown
Linda Edgecombe, CSP
Mandi Stanely, CSP
Mike Monahan
Phoebe Bailey
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20. Let
winners win. Surround yourself with creative, talented, and gifted
people and keep them engaged, stimulated and challenged, allowing them
to claim their victories. - Edie Raether
21. Dress the
part of a leader to be viewed as one. People will respond to you
based on your appearance. Make sure your attire reflects an image that
you want to convey. A quote from Queen Elizabeth stresses the importance
of attire “Dress gives one the outward sign from which people can judge
the inward state of mind. One they can see. . . the other they cannot.”
- Donna Satchell
22.
To establish mutual involvement in problem
resolution, show others how your proposal benefits the organization,
you, and them.
- Vicki Anderson
23. Prescription
without diagnosis is malpractice - why don’t they do what you want them
to do? Most leaders have a bias
toward assuming a particular reason that they generalize to all
performance problems. In reality,
people don’t perform for a variety of reasons and the interventions are
specific to the reason! If they don’t know how, teach them. If
they don’t want to, incent them. If they don’t know what to do,
tell and show them. If they have barriers, remove them or
show a way around them and then build their strengths to
overcome. - Mike Monahan
24. Lighten
up! Don’t take yourself so seriously. Everyone makes mistakes, so
use them as fertilizer for growth. - John Storm
25. Keep the
following in mind: Who is my customer? What does my customer want? -
Diana Grippo
26. Read
books about leading and make lists of the traits you discover are in
you. We are all born with the capacity of becoming leaders when
necessary. Over time we let our natural leadership traits quiet down
into our subconscious while we are convinced that only a very few people are truly
born to lead. - Robert Alan Black
27. Appeal
sparingly to the competitive urge. Competition is a reasonably
effective motivator - to a point. Competition unchecked can create envy,
sabotage and drain the energy needed to accomplish your objective.
- Mike Monahan
28. Build
rather than burn bridges.
- Pat Veal
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47. Don’t bottle
emotions. Strength is not weakened by emotions.
- Pat Veal
48. Don’t
hire rabbits to swim and fish to run! Use validated hiring
assessments and behavioral interviewing to get a great hire. Use a team
approach to hire new employees. You can fool one person but it is harder
to fool a team - not impossible but harder. - Greg Maciolek
49. In any
given situation, know your intended outcome. No matter how trivial
the moment may seem, know what you want out of it and enter the moment
as if your outcome has already
happened. - Jo Spurrier
50. Keep your
own motivation high. Disengaged leaders are ineffective leaders.
Being a leader is like acting on a Broadway stage. It may be your 567th
performance and feel routine but the audience is expecting your best
performance. - Mike Monahan
51.
Take the phrase have to out of your
vocabulary and move from whiner to winner.
Whiners say things like: “I have to leave my house at 6 a.m. to avoid
the traffic. Next month I have to go to Germany on a business trip.
Every morning I have to meet with my boss for ten minutes.” Winners
change have to to I choose to, I get to or they simply
state a fact. Winners express themselves like this: “I choose to leave
my house at 6 a.m. to avoid the traffic” (which implies she is clever in
avoiding traffic hassles). “Next month I get to go to Germany on a
business trip” (which implies she is fortunate indeed and that the
organization holds her in such high regard as
to invest in an expensive trip). “I meet with my boss every morning”
(which states she must be particularly valuable if her boss cannot start
his day without consulting her). It’s smart to not say have to
unless you want to express that you are forced to do something against
your will. - Doug Smart
52. Always
remember that everyone needs strokes. As a leader it is absolutely
essential to find ways to sincerely acknowledge each team member for
personal contributions. - Jo Spurrier
53. Seek
fellow travelers not followers. People prefer to travel with people
they respect. Periodically they will seek and/or need a leader.
- Robert
Alan Black
54. Begin a
personal life inventory. Keep an ongoing list of your life’s
stories, defining events, strengths, passions, and gifts. Reflect on how
these affect and can direct your life’s
trajectory. -
John Storm
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